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Conflict Management E-Newsletter
August 2000 #7
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Welcome to the seventh issue of the Conflict Management
E-Newsletter. And thank you for making the shift to
E-Groups. It certainly makes it easy for me to distribute
the newsletter.

I am not sure if there is a focus this month: a little on this
and a little on that. Josefina Rendon's article is well worth
the read, and I hope that some of you will explore the
article about 'Fire Management'.

A reminder that the instructions to unsubscribe
are at the end of the newsletter. And that new
subscriptions are always welcome. Tell a friend!

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1. Articles

When You Can't Get Through To Them:
Cultural Diversity In Mediation
By Josefina Muñiz Rendón
Mediating without some cultural diversity competence,
may result in substandard mediation services. One author
has even suggested that mediating while lacking cultural
diversity competence borders on the unethical. On the
other hand, once the mediator recognizes cultural
differences and learns how to address them, a completely
new and bigger tool box becomes available to the mediator.
http://www.mediate.com/articles/rendon.cfm

Where There's Smoke It Helps to Have a Smoke Jumper
by Anna Muoio
This article appeared in Fast Company (Issue 33)
and is for everyone interested in FIRE as a metaphor
for conflict and conflict management. It's inclusion
is inspired by the presentation made at the
ABA's dispute resolution conference earlier this year:
"Smoke Detectors, Not Fire Alarms:
Designing Corporate Conflict Management Systems"
By Constantino, Hasson, Rosen, Bedman

"If you spend too much of your
time "putting out fires," then take
some advice from master smoke
jumper Wayne Williams. He'll
teach you how to think clearly, to
act decisively, to work precisely --
and to solve problems before they
burn out of control."
http://www.fastcompany.com/online/33/smoke.html

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2. Conflict Resolution Training Goes Online

Using ADR to Resolve Employment Disputes
By Law.com
August 22 - September 6
Join seminar moderator Jeffrey Krivis and an
expert panel of lawyers and neutrals for a 2-week
online seminar examining issues including:
How to select a neutral;
Special concerns in resolving disputes with high
tech employees;
Implementation of an internal ADR program;
The use of pre-dispute mandatory arbitration clauses;
Effective mediation techniques.
http://www.legalseminars.com/programs/adremp.htm

Conflict Resolution
By Learn2.com
Conflict Resolution provides instruction on conflict
resolution through an interactive, self-paced learning
experience that creates opportunities to improve skills
and adjust behaviors. Conflict Resolution is an
indispensable learning and reference tool for people
undergoing change in individual and work relationships.
The informal presentation format lets the student work
through the course at his or her own pace. The course
covers sources of conflict and conflict positions;
different strategies including constructive and destructive
conflict management, as well as avoidance, defusion,
and confrontation; tactics and techniques for resolving
conflict; and solutions for finding common ground.
Integral to the course are exercises, role plays and a
glossary of terms.
http://www.tutorials.com/catalog/catalog_item.asp?ugid=dHV0b3JpYWxz&pi
d=129&csid=24#1178

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3. Last Repeat Announcement

"Draft Guidelines for the Design of Integrated Conflict
Management Systems within Organizations."

This is for any of you who struggled to find the document
in the Forum environment.
The guidelines are now a click away!!
http://www.spidr.org/article/icmsD.html

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4. News from Southern Africa

Shootings Strain Cape Mediation
Mediation between warring factions in the continuing
conflict between taxi associations and the Golden Arrow
Bus Company in Khayelitsha has come under increased
strain because of the shooting of two more bus drivers this
week. Yesterday, the first of a number of working groups,
set as part of the mediation process, returned to discuss
their proposals, which have not yet been made available
to the media. The groups have been asked to examine the
regulative, criminal and community aspects of the dispute.
Business Day, 20000720

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5. Quotes

Mark Twain
"If we were supposed to talk more than we listen, we would
have two mouths and one ear."

Goethe
"No one would talk much in society, if he knew how often
he misunderstands others."

Dante
"He listens well who takes notes."

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6. New Book

Mobbing: Emotional Abuse in the American Workplace
by Davenport, Schwartz, and Elliott

Mobbing can be compared to bullying at the workplace.
Mobbing denotes, however, more specifically a "ganging up"
by co-workers, subordinates or superiors, to force someone
out of the workplace through rumor, innuendo, intimidation,
discrediting, isolation, and particularly, humiliation.
They intentionally target-and ultimately destroy-
innocent individuals who are trying to do their work well
and with dignity. Victims are attacked or undermined-
often with approval by higher management.

The book helps readers to understand what mobbing is,
why it occurs, how it affects a victim, how organizations
are impacted and what people can do-as a victim, a family
member, a friend, or as a manager. It also encourages the
legal community to rethink the current laws as they do not
provide sufficient protection for this type of serious and
widespread workplace injury.

Civil Society Publishing. $14.95
(800) 247-6553, ISBN number 0-9671803-0-9.

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8. Feedback is welcome

If you have any suggestions, tips, or other comments,
send an e-mail to johnford@mediate.com. We welcome
new subscriptions-tell a friend.

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